Helping friend on relationship ?

Hi forumers,


I have a good friend, he just had a girlfriend just recently.


- Few months back, a lady from Okcupid invited him out for a meal, short while only.

- Few weeks back, he met up with this lady again

- Told me he interested in her, wanna woo her

- but he scare he will kana confuse on relationship.......my this friend very low confident type, very introvert too. will also get shy when first time meet up with woman



Should help my friend on this ?

Forumers, any suggestion ?

Friend = TS ......

Friend = TS

Haha, that's definitely not me

if lady good, steal from your friend

if no good....help your friend

just do it

foosoomin wrote:Hi forumers,


I have a good friend, he just had a girlfriend just recently.


- Few months back, a lady from Okcupid invited him out for a meal, short while only.

- Few weeks back, he met up with this lady again

- Told me he interested in her, wanna woo her

- but he scare he will kana confuse on relationship.......my this friend very low confident type, very introvert too. will also get shy when first time meet up with woman



Should help my friend on this ?

YOU ASKING THIS SERIOUS R/S PROBLEM ON A UNCENSOR EDMW ??

PIAK FIRST THINK LATER

PAIKIA wrote:

foosoomin wrote:Hi forumers,


I have a good friend, he just had a girlfriend just recently.


- Few months back, a lady from Okcupid invited him out for a meal, short while only.

- Few weeks back, he met up with this lady again

- Told me he interested in her, wanna woo her

- but he scare he will kana confuse on relationship.......my this friend very low confident type, very introvert too. will also get shy when first time meet up with woman



Should help my friend on this ?

YOU ASKING THIS SERIOUS R/S PROBLEM ON A UNCENSOR EDMW ??

PIAK FIRST THINK LATER

NO WONDER CARRIE PANGSEH CHIU

If he scare will confuse his current relationship, think he won't woo the lady.


If he wanna try wooing the lady, it is very easy for both of them to get together.



Occassionally, he will Whatsapp me, ask for help

foosoomin wrote:Hi forumers,


I have a good friend, he just had a girlfriend just recently.


- Few months back, a lady from Okcupid invited him out for a meal, short while only.

- Few weeks back, he met up with this lady again

- Told me he interested in her, wanna woo her

- but he scare he will kana confuse on relationship.......my this friend very low confident type, very introvert too. will also get shy when first time meet up with woman



Should help my friend on this ?

Moi read until moi ish confused. Your friend now have a girlfriend, and then now there's another lady on OkCupid that is interested in him?

misterlazer,


He has a girlfriend now....

Few months back he got to know a lady through OKcupid.


Then few weeks back, he jio her for a meal, with me around.


He then asked me how to break off with his girlfriend, i know he wants to chase this lady

foosoomin wrote:misterlazer,


He has a girlfriend now....

Few months back he got to know a lady through OKcupid.


Then few weeks back, he jio her for a meal, with me around.


He then asked me how to break off with his girlfriend, i know he wants to chase this lady

Moi see.

If he's sure the other lady ish better, just break off direct and go to that lady. After all, ladies do the same thing to guys anyway.

If he wants to be a jerk, then be a playa.

Fren = TS

I dun understand what is:
he scare he will kana confuse on relationship.
:s11:

misterlazer,


He has several failed relationship, i don't know how many.


However, he very low confident one, very low self-esteem, very negative, communication skill poor with female, not decisive, he also ever told me before that sinkie chinese ladies no good.


Last Sunday, he wanna pass her a mug as christmas present, but doesn't know how to tell her. Ended up i helped him type.


Now he finally realised that sinkie chinese bu is good, asked me how......i say "you decide on your own".


I told him to be decisive, he say he don't want to hurt anymore ladies, he even say he don't wanna 2 time.



I see how things goes lar

sofero,


It simply means he scare he cannot handle it....also means he not decisive....

misterlazer,


If he break off with his girlfriend, i will then tell him to immediately woo the lady.


As of now, i can't say it.......Bcos if i say, he lagi more confuse

But how can u help him? In this case he can only help himself.

sofero,


I keep on encouraging him by saying positive things about the lady.

Indirectly means "go woo her"

Is OKC real?

Wahr, ts living life dangerously. If he listen to u break with gf but the okcupid gal fail too, or he get together with the okvupid gal but regret leaving gf, u all fwen no moar already....

foosoomin wrote:misterlazer,


He has several failed relationship, i don't know how many.


However, he very low confident one, very low self-esteem, very negative, communication skill poor with female, not decisive, he also ever told me before that sinkie chinese ladies no good.


Last Sunday, he wanna pass her a mug as christmas present, but doesn't know how to tell her. Ended up i helped him type.


Now he finally realised that sinkie chinese bu is good, asked me how......i say "you decide on your own".


I told him to be decisive, he say he don't want to hurt anymore ladies, he even say he don't wanna 2 time.



I see how things goes lar

If he cannot make up his mind, nor accept that relationships are challenging, he's better off staying fa and let other guys have a chance.

Actually, did he ever say why he feels his current gf makes him want to break off?

hi misterlazer,


He is ok with his gf, just that i knows he wanna chase this OKcupid lady.


Bcos he ever asked me, how to break off with his current gf.....


I know his intention liao.......

I also agree with you, just break off with gf.


But, i have no right to tell him this